Dilemma-Sure?

My grandmother used to tell me that you should take your time to decide.

Hear others, research and refer to relevant resources, 

And once you are sure take that plunge, have no doubts what so ever and stick by your decision. 

Ideal as it might sound, the reality at times is far fetched.

No matter what’s the decision we take, the thought of loosing upon the other side of the coin troubles our mind.

What if the option that I left was better than the one I chose? 

What if it would have made me more successful?

What if I would have got what I wanted by going for that other option?

Well, what if is something, which no one knows off,

No one can predict or decipher,

Then why think about it! 

For what if you never were born! Or what if you would die sooner than expected. 

But the question is how does one get this very monkey off our backs and minds?

Yes, one can try to focus on our actions and forget about the consequences, as illustrated in the Bhagavad Gita

Yet, is it so easy to do so?

If it were, as they say, why would souls invest lifetimes in figuring out what the truth is!

Well, wasn’t life all about exploration and finding answers to the questions that keep cropping up because of our curiosity influencing our very minds?

If it is, then what are we waiting for? 

Take the plunge and see for yourself what it is rather than being caught up in this dilemma of being sure or not.

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The Delta Flotation!

What people might refer to as distractions, I might want to call it the hidden desires, though, why hidden is a question that we all need to ponder over as a society!

The limitation of not being able to say a NO when you don’t really want it, and the anxiety of being judged by the who’s who of your own community, in case you gather the courage to speak out, is a dilemma that most face in today’s judgemental and opinionated world.

Have you ever wondered, what happens to those desires, when they don’t find an expression?

Way sign

Well, to a certain extent, you try to conform to the norms of the society, by merging it with distorted terminologies such as daily distractions, or the likes; at other times you just choose to internalise the very same, which might find an expression through your eyes, if the one who perceives is open enough to the possibility of understanding the very nature of what that might mean.

What lies at the core is a wonderful possibility of being open to the very nature of life and its dynamics, for the hidden must find an expression.

So, what are you waiting for, unless and until you take that delta step towards being in a state of flotation, what more there is to it!

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